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The Lady’s Game: A Step-by-Step Guide to Become a Better Woman

This post is a guide about how to become a better woman. It’s not a guide about how to be the best woman, but rather a guide that will help you be a better version of yourself–a woman who is confident and self-aware. If you’re looking for ways to make the most of your natural talents, ease everyday frustrations, and feel strong in your skin, this post is for you. These are all things I wish I knew as I was growing up as a girl. So read on as we explore some easy-to-implement tips that can help you be happier and more confident in your everyday life.

Section 1: How to be a better woman

1. Say “no.”

Being a “yes-person” is exhausting and often creates guilt. It is also very unfulfilling, and shows that you don’t respect yourself. Say “no” when you want to. Don’t feel guilty. Saying “no” also shows that you will listen to your own judgment.

2. Stand up for yourself.

Being confident means being assertive. Say no to people if you are not being respected or comfortable. Remember that saying “no” is a form of self-care and self-preservation.

3. Remember that other people’s needs are just that: other people’s needs.

Don’t let your desire to care about everyone’s needs cause you to try to meet everyone’s needs. Be true to yourself, and put your own needs first.

4. When in doubt, ask questions.

Confidence is key

There’s a very natural inclination to be critical of the other woman when you observe something. Often I’ve been watching one of my friends, male or female, who does or doesn’t act a certain way and it becomes a drag to watch. I can tell that my friend doesn’t like to be in certain social situations and so it’s just exhausting to be around them because they are so critical.

When I’m watching a woman engage in some type of activity with another woman, I see myself in a whole new light. I’m like, “Oh my God, I’m just such a dope for worrying about how much I look like this person when I’m out in public. What a piece of shit.”

Confidence isn’t about putting on a facade–it’s about feeling comfortable in your skin, owning your natural talents, and being secure with who you are.

Tips for being confident

If you’re unfamiliar with what it means to be confident, read this post by Jen Mook:

Even if you are confident and you know you are, there’s always room to learn and improve. That’s why we’re going to talk about ways to be a more confident woman, and I’m going to give you a step-by-step guide to it. If you know how to be confident, you will always feel good about yourself and take good care of yourself.

Who is a good example to follow?

First, I think it’s important to pick a “good” role model. I recommend picking someone that you admire or respect for a number of reasons, but especially because they inspire you to be a better person. Just make sure they’re not perfect! You want someone who is confident but is not over the top.

Being yourself is the best thing you can do

When I was younger, I used to feel like I couldn’t be who I truly was because of my gender. I often wondered what other girls thought about me, or if boys would like me. I kept on thinking that if I wasn’t pretty and skinny, people wouldn’t like me. That doesn’t mean I wasn’t good at my job or that I didn’t put effort into things I loved, but I felt like I had to do these things to get what I wanted. This is a lot of pressure, and it didn’t allow me to do what I loved, which was help others. But as I’ve grown older, I’ve come to realize that being yourself is the best thing you can do in life. You have to embrace the things you are, even if other people aren’t comfortable with them. Sure, you have to work at being an emotional and loving person.

Be kind to yourself

Many of us are raised to equate being nice with being weak and unattractive. When I was a teen, my ex-boyfriend made me cry, telling me how much he wanted me to “be a bitch” so he could be the one in charge. A few years ago, a guy friend of mine told me he would never date me because I was “too nice.” My cousin once told me that I was “too nice.” I’ve had countless guys tell me that the reason they’re not with me is that they can’t handle me. Instead of buying into these stereotypes, stop putting yourself down. Stop giving out an unsolicited “I’m sorry” for the millionth time. Start practicing saying “you don’t have to treat me like crap just because I’m nice” as much as possible. Every time you get triggered, look at why you’re being triggered, take a breath, and assess the situation.

Embrace your flaws

No matter how good you think you look, or how much you exercise, there are going to be days when you are feeling self-conscious about your body. So accept those days, and embrace them. No one is perfect. Instead of obsessing about your flaws, learn to love yourself in your imperfection. Don’t compare yourself to other girls. Don’t compare your life with everyone else’s. Everyone is different, and life doesn’t have to follow a rigid “perfect” mold. Instead, use those “flaws” as a reminder that you are exactly as you are supposed to be. There is nothing you can’t accomplish, because there is nothing you should want to do that you don’t have the capability to do. Find the balance between being happy with who you are and being happy with how you look.

How to be a better woman after 10 years from now

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Before we get started, let’s make one thing very clear. You will never be perfect. There will always be flaws, whether they be physical or emotional. And if you live in a world where all of your “flaws” are projected onto another woman, it’s easy to feel like you’re not good enough–not pretty enough, not thin enough, not smart enough, not ambitious enough.

We all have them. I have them. Everyone has them. But that’s not the point. The point is that, instead of letting those flaws and insecurities dominate your psyche, you can use them to grow and become a better woman. You can use them to inspire you.


I hope that you’re enjoying this post. In general I try to avoid talk of spiritual enlightenment and I’d be just as happy if you didn’t mention meditation. As I’ve said before, you need to experience for yourself, the power of these practices, and the results for yourself before you take them on board as a practice. It’s much more worthwhile to do it and come to the realisation that you can change for the better in this lifetime than to read about someone else doing it and never doing it. In fact, I’d be happy if you just enjoyed reading this post and wished me a great day or a good night, instead of putting in any comments about your experience with meditation or anything else.

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